I Have Everything, Yet, I have Nothing

Have you ever been to a 21st birthday party or is it just a South African thing? Particularly, a Black South African thing? My family couldn’t afford to throw me a big party when I turned 21 but I was invited to a few and I attended them all. The premise of a 21st birthday party is that a young woman has now crossed over the threshold from being a child to a woman. Your family gives you a key. The key is a metaphorical…